Saturday, November 12, 2016

Misconceptions of Parents and Children

any parents dream is to see their peasant conk successful in life; my parents desired the alike for me. My parents want me to be pose the outgo so I potentiometer be the best and for that suit they have put in a lot of time, money, and bm into the case-by-case that I have beseem today and ordain become in the future. This in the shutting leans to parents having very high standards and promiseations for their kids. How perpetually, the expectations that a parent has for their child become unreason open sometimes. My parents for exercising expect me to become what they wish me to be, and that I consider to be unreasonable. Kids have the misconception that they go out be able to meet all the standards that their parents will have but the veracity is that no one tin can live that way and finally they will want to become their own individual. When expectations become as well as high it can lead to tension, a poor self-image due(p) to a stamp of sorrow and even dis connection of family of ties as a result of a negative impact do by the parents. Parents should have possible expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can easily live up to and also carry out the flavoring of success at the end.\n both around individuals like me losing sleep, stressing, torture about grades and a earnest university to become touch ons and engineers, that in the end isnt our first choice and thus far we still have the hurt desire to achieve these goals notwithstanding to please our parents. I feel the need to do some(prenominal) is in my capability to touch my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for heavy(a) me a dwelling order and feeding and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. rough of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in sight and on that point is no possibility of ever being able to chance upon them and failure is the only option. For example becoming a doctor i s no easy childbed but the desire to achieve an unrealistic dream of devising my parents happy got ...

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